23 May 2014

NYC Bucket: #14 Go Camping Upstate

14. GO CAMPING UPSTATE

Original Bucket List: HERE


I can still feel the calm that I felt every morning waking up in this cabin. I haven't been camping in so-o-o-o-o long. Too long. I think the last time I legitimately camped had to be when I went backpacking deep into the California wilderness with a bunch of friends at the age of thirteen. I can't even remember where that was because it was such a long time ago. So needless to say, I've been fiending for some nature for quite a while. 

Now, let me just clarify that I whole-heartedly feel that camping, real camping, does not involve a cabin. However, for the sake of this bucket list -- it counts. 

Last weekend, myself, my boyfriend, and four other friends of ours decided to leave the madness of New York City for a few days and fully indulge ourselves into some much needed nature. I have wanted to explore upstate New York basically since I moved here so I was so happy to finally take this trip. We decided to rent our home for the weekend through AirBnB. This was my first time using them and I must say they were prettay, prettay, prettay good. 

The cabin was located in South Kortright up in the Northern Catskills, about a four hour drive from the city. With six friends, three couples, and one awesome dog -- we had the best crew. We arrived on Friday evening just before sunset. The drive up seemed longer than expected due to getting lost a few times on the way along with our lengthy but mandatory pre-arrival grocery store stop. It felt like such a journey by the time we got there, but as soon as we saw the cabin it all felt so worth the wait. 

The cabin itself sat on a twenty-five acre lake that was just a few steps from the back of the house. Inside, there were three bedrooms, one bathroom, a great open kitchen, and a wood burning fireplace. The overall feel was so cute, warm, and inviting. I felt right at home.












(chickens!)


This place was made for relaxation. It was perfect. We spent the weekend grilling, hiking, nature-exploring, building campfires, and just b e i n g. It was definitely one of those 'nurture the soul' type weekends. Nature is so awesome.

My favorite part of the weekend? That's tough... but a major highlight for me had to be the s'mores. I came across this genius idea on Pinterest that suggests putting a Reese's peanut butter cup in-between your marshmallow and Hershey's. I was like whaaaa.... oh, man, yeah, gotta try it. Also, this was my boyfriend's first time ever in life experiencing a s'more, so it was kind of a special moment.










By the time Sunday came, I felt totally at peace. It was just what the doctor ordered. On our drive home, which was so beautiful, we stopped at Minnewaska State Park to check out the Awosting Falls

It was the perfect ending to the perfect weekend...















*****


The crew. 05-18-2014.

08 May 2014

NYC Bucket: #2 Participate in a Flash Mob

2. PARTICIPATE IN A FLASH MOB

Original Bucket List: HERE

Of all the things on my list, this one was a biggy for me. I think I have wanted to be a part of a flash mob ever since I first learned about them and saw this one on one of my favorite shows from back in the day. Since moving to New York though, I learned that flash mobs come in all forms and can be used for all kinds of occasions.

Some of the best flash mobs are the ones that are used just for shock value or to make people laugh such as NYC's famous No Pants Subway Ride or really, anything created by Improv Everywhere. They're pretty great. A few years ago, I found myself up super late one night in my Brooklyn apartment just watching hours and hours of videos that they made. I was dying. Some of their stuff was so good. Personal favorite: Grocery Store Musical. Anywho... I've also seen flash mobs that people do for birthday surprises, proposals, and all kinds of celebrations.

So! In order to pull this little dream of mine off, I needed to find a group of flash mobbers who were down to let me get in on their mobbing. I did a little research and found this awesome organization called FLASH MOB AMERICA. They do flash mobs all across America (hence the name) and anyone can participate. You just check out their calendar and see when they're coming to your city. For NYC, there were two coming up. One of which was a birthday surprise mob but was set to be happening the following day. That was a little too soon. The next of which was for someone's marriage proposal, and it was set for April 6th which is also my mom's birthday. I thought, perfect! Good vibes for that date.

Once I signed up, they sent me two YouTube videos. One of which shows the dance that we have to learn, in full. The other is a step-by-step tutorial so that we can learn the dance. There was only going to be one rehearsal, the day of, three hours before the actual flash mob was set to take place. I convinced a girlfriend of mine to do this with me and we had practiced together one night a few days prior, so I was feeling pretty confident when we showed up to rehearsal. I was ready to go.

It happened to be the most beautiful, Spring-timey day on this particular Sunday. My friend and I met at the rehearsal studio in Chelsea around noon. At this point we had no idea where the actual flash mob proposal was going to be. It was all very secretive. When we got there, I was surprised at how many people showed up. There were at least a hundred. I was like daaaaaaaaaaayumm..... lets do this.

So we danced, and then we danced some more. It was so fun that it had me contemplating the idea of taking a dance class here. Or really, it just made me want to dance way more in general. I JUST WANNA DANCE. I do.

I snapped a photo.

It was actually really, really hot in there. They had some dumb building code that restricted us from opening the windows. We made the best of it though. At the end of rehearsal, they revealed the official location: The Bethesda Fountain in Central Park.

Yessssssss. I was so pumped! We had about an hour to get there and were roughly forty blocks south of the location. My friend and I decided to take advantage of the perfect weather and walk up. It was definitely one of those feel-good days.

We got there about five minutes before go-time. I started recognizing other 'dancers' in random places all around the fountain. The set up was that five people were going to start with the first two eight counts, then another ten or so jump in, then another 12, and so on until we are all dancing around this (hopefully) soon to be engaged couple. 

If you're not familiar with the Bethesda Fountain, it looks like this:

The anticipation was killing me as I waited for the music to start. And then just as I began talking to some random girl, Jason DeRulo's "Marry Me" started playing out of surrounding speakers. 

[dancing starts]

105 is the number that comes to my head
When I think of all the years I wanna be with you
Wake up every morning with you in my bed
That's precisely what I plan to do

[next group jumps in]

And you know one of these days when I get my money right
Buy you everything and show you the finer things in life
We'll forever be in love, so there aint no need to rush
But one day, I won't be able to ask you loud enough

[I jump in!]

I'll say will you marry me?
I swear that I will mean it
I'll say will you marry me?

...and a ladi-dadi-da the song goes on for a few more verses as more people chimed in. It was pretty amazing. When the song got to the last verse and slowed way down, all of us mobbers parted like the red sea as the main man walked his girlfriend down the center. We all gathered around in a circle. He said something to her that I couldn't quite hear and then got down on one knee. 

There were tears all around! She said yes. I mean, of course she said yes. If you're going to put on a production as big as this, you'd better be pretty sure that she's down to marry you. 

I got a couple photos, but got blocked by the people.


And the newly engaged lady hugging her dad.

And us! With our instructor :)



Overall - the entire experience was so fun. I would definitely do it again.

ENJOY THE FULL VIDEO, HERE:

09 April 2014

NYC Bucket: #13 Sleep No More

13. SLEEP NO MORE

Original Bucket List: HERE

Sleep. No. More. Sleep No More, Sleep No More. Where do I even begin? If you have not already heard of or experienced "Sleep No More" yourself, you are probably completely clueless (just as I was) as to what it is. All that I've heard from friends that have gone before me have said things like, 

"I probably shouldn't tell you too much, but it's really cool, go."

"It's so unique." 

"It's hard to explain, you just have to check it out."

"Everyone has a different experience."

"You'll love it, Just go."

So naturally, I grew quite curious (and equally confused) about this 'Sleep No More'. In fact, my curiosity had been growing for quite some time now, maybe for a few years. What the heck was it? All I really knew about it was that it was an interactive experience of some sort that took place at a hotel and that there would be actors. So, still not knowing quite exactly what this experience would entail, I was very excited when my boyfriend surprised me with tickets to Sleep No More this past Christmas.

It was finally going to happen! My curiosity would soon be relieved. I didn't want to spoil any part of my experience by reading online reviews ahead of time but I have to admit I did do a little light Yelping the day before. (I can't help it sometimes). Anyway, it did me no good whatsoever because after what I read on Yelp, I was left even more confused than before. It was surprising to see how many people didn't want to give too much away with what they wrote in their reviews. What I did read though, was that there would be a mandatory coat and purse check, we would be wearing masks, and we may or may not see some barenaked lady parts. Things were getting real weird real fast, and I liked it. I also read that if you go with someone, it is suggested that you split up and "choose your own adventure". Whatever that meant...

So off we went. We arrived at the McKittrick Hotel right at 7:30 pm ready for the night ahead. If you choose to read further than this then just know you are in for some *SPOILERS* below.

This was my Sleep No More experience...

Welcomed by a tall man with a very deep voice and a top hat, we entered through two super tall doors into a very dark lobby area before checking our coats. Once we were hands free, my boyfriend and I were each handed a mask that we were asked to wear throughout our entire experience (surprise, surprise). We were then directed down a long hallway that led us to two women behind what looked like bank teller stations. They were both dressed in character and I instantly felt like we were in a different time and place. Each woman handed us an individual playing card. My boyfriend got the Thirteen of Diamonds and I got The Joker.

"These will be your keys for the evening, please enter through the stairs on your right and enjoy your stay," they told us.

So up the stairs we went, hands held, it was dark and we were led only by candlelight as we climbed a couple of flights. I felt like we were about to go on a ride or something! The not-knowing of what was to come next was a very exciting feeling. After a minute or two, I started to hear music and things began to brighten up as we were welcomed into the main lobby of the hotel. What we walked into was so cool! It was as if the staircase we walked up beforehand was a time machine and once we reached the top we were instantly thrown into the early 1930's. The set decoration was incredible. The room was fairly large with low ceilings; it felt like a fancy basement cellar, even though I knew we were above ground. To the right of me was a long bar, the only one in the room, that stretched long against the wall. Dead ahead of us was a stage that had a piano, an old school drum set, and a double bass. Everyone else in this room had their masks off, which I soon learned was because the real experience hadn't actually begun yet. This was the main floor, also known to the public as Manderley Bar, in which we could come to at any time during the experience if we needed a break from wearing our masks, wanted to buy a drink, or whatever. The bartender, the cocktail waitresses, and anyone that I noticed who seemed to work there was in Character at all times. All of them beautiful.

The lobby looked like this:

A minute or two upon entering this room, an announcement was made. 

"Hello everyone! We will be calling in the first group now according to your room keys, please come with me all DIAMONDS."

My boyfriend had the Diamond, and me the Joker, remember... but I wasn't quite ready to separate from him just yet so we both put on our masks and entered the room in which the Diamonds were called together. There were about twelve of us that crammed into this small room that had four black painted walls. A door shut behind us and it gave me that same exact feel of the room you go into before entering the Haunted Mansion at Disneyland. You know the one that's secretly an elevator and appears to have walls that grow super, super tall? Well, this room wasn't an elevator but that's exactly where we ended up heading next. 

On the opposite side of the room that we entered, a door slid open and a bellman appeared before inviting us onto an elevator with him. So on we went -- I was beyond excited at this point. HERE WE GO! Everyone in the elevator was silent as we listened to the bellman's introduction. I could feel the elevator was going up. I noticed as he began to speak that he glanced down at my boyfriend and I holding hands and then he goes on to say, "For those of you... who have not come alone to the McKittrick Hotel tonight, it is suggested that you separate from your party... as Sleep No More is most enjoyable as an individual experience." (READ: speaking in a british dialect much like Sherlock Holmes)

The elevator stops. "You have reached the third floor. Please exit and enjoooy! Sleep. No. More."

More than half of our group exits, my boyfriend slightly in front of me, and as soon as he steps off the elevator the bellman puts his arm directly in between us keeping me on the elevator as my boyfriend walks off, oblivious. The bellman then shuts the door with me still inside. Silence. It's just me, the bellman, and two other people that I don't know.

"Have I just separated you from your chaperone for the evening?" he asks me. 

"No chaperone this evening..." I tell him. 

He takes a moment of silence, opens the door to the next floor, looks at me and says, "very good answer." 

I stepped off the elevator and so my individual adventure began. 

"WHAT IS THIS PLACE???" I thought. It was dark, but not too dark to see. I was inside of a massive, Victorian, 1930's style mansion. It was beautiful, unique, mysterious, creepy, and had me oh-so-curious all in one setting. There were so many rooms that I couldn't even count them, each one with their own style and their own story to tell. Although, altogether the rooms were cohesive and a part of a much larger story. Each room was filled with such incredible detail, and I soon learned that the whole point of this experience was to explore every single room in its entirety in order to understand it all. We could open all the drawers, read all the books, touch all the items; it was like a giant interactive puzzle that filled me with never-ending curiosity. 

The first room I entered had to be the creepiest, by far. (A lovely way to begin). It was a small room with a crib in the middle of it. Surrounding the crib and hanging from the ceiling, were about one hundred dead baby dolls. YEAH. Dead baby dolls. I already find dolls to be supremely creepy, so this room definitely gave me the heeby-jeebies. I was pretty much in and out of that room and quickly onto the next...

As I traveled through the halls, there were other people in masks, just like myself, who were running around from room to room and exploring. Just to give you a better visual understanding of what was happening, the masks looked like this:


I noticed a large group of masked people all flocking to the same room and so my curious little self followed to see what the hype was. In here, I found a woman. (no mask on! she was the first actor I encountered in the experience). She appeared pregnant. She looked very distraught and sad and then another man entered the room and came to her. They had an intense exchange of emotion, seemingly lovers, and their exchange was displayed only through dance. No one ever spoke in Sleep No More. 

Each room that I encountered after this one became more and more interesting. More actors appeared throughout the experience, each telling their own portion of the story. The actors themselves would run from room to room as their characters played out their scenes. It was like watching a play, but the set was a mansion, and we were all just flies on the wall. What was so cool to me was how close we could get to the actors and everything they were experiencing. The best way I could describe it is if you've ever imagined what it would be like to be a ghost? or invisible? This was probably the closest you could ever get to having that feeling in real life.

Like this:

and some of the other rooms I explored looked like this:




You aren't allowed to take photos inside of Sleep No More, so what I have to show you here is pretty minimal. There were so many rooms to explore that you can only ever see by going inside. There were several bedrooms, a candy shop, a bath house, an enchanted forest, a wooden maze, a sanitarium, a torture chamber room, a room with padded walls, a graveyard, a doctor's office, a wash room, several drinking areas, a bar, a library, a private loft (where I watched a man get killed!), and a big and beautiful ballroom where the final "scene" of Sleep No More takes place.

I did manage to snap one personal photo while we were there. Here we are at the very end...

All in all, I can agree that this is something that is definitely more enjoyable as an individual experience, just like they told us. It was really fun to exchange stories with each other once it was over. We had two completely different experiences! He saw things that I totally missed and vise versa. I now understand why people want to go back over and over again, because you really can't see it all by going just one time. Your experience will depend on which rooms you explore and at which times you explore them. The entire experience allows you to explore for up to three hours in this magical mansion of secrets, so I highly recommend getting there early so that you can get the most out of your time offered.

Oh, and BONUS: you get to keep your mask and your room key. So if you ever get the chance, GO! You won't regret it. 

04 March 2014

My NYC Bucket List!

Hello 2014!

As we enter our third month of twenty-fourteen, I must say it is finally starting to feel like a new year. YEAH! The winter has been pretty brutal on the East Coast this year so I have pretty much been hibernating with my boyfriend like we were two bears in the wild. New York City being the wild of course. Well, guess what "Winter"? I am ready to come out of hibernation. We all are. I am certain that the first day this city has with a temperature above sixty degrees, the streets are going to siiiiiing. The birds will be chirping. The people will be laughing and skipping about while sunshine passes through them. The dog parks will fill again. The ice covered weeds will again serve as lush settings for picnics and daytime activities. It will be glorious. GLLOORRRRIOUSS. At least that's my vision. 

Anyway... while I am definitely excited that Winter will soon come to a close, I am also completely content with the fact that this too, will be my last East Coast Winter! The word is out. By the time the Fall hits this year, I will no longer be a resident of NYC. Scary thought! But I am also super excited about the next chapter. With just seven short months left in this crazy/beautiful place, I have put together a bucket list of things that I just have to do (and haven't done yet) before leaving. I thought it would be fun to blog my experiences here as I cross each item off my list. Follow along if you like! The following are twenty of my "NYC must-do's"...


1. Walk across the Brooklyn Bridge



4. Take a free class

5. Drink on Eataly's Rooftop

6. Get chocolatey @ Max Brenner

7. Visit the Guggenheim

8. Brooklyn Brewery Tour


10. Take a ride on a Citi Bike


12. Visit the Cloisters





17. Go the Comedy Cellar

18. Visit the "Friends" Building


20. See SNL live